Why Decluttering Is Really About Awareness

Lessons From My Meditation Intensive

I just returned from a 3-day meditation intensive, and while I expected it to feel restorative, I didn’t expect it to spark a whole new way of thinking about my work.

One of the most powerful lessons of the retreat was this: awareness changes everything.

When you slow down enough to really notice what’s happening — in your mind, in your emotions, and even in your body — you see how much of what weighs you down is just… habitual. Thoughts, feelings, attachments, clutter — they pile up quietly until you can barely hear yourself think.

And that’s when it hit me: this is exactly what happens in our homes and our lives too.

Your Clutter Is Talking To You

Everything in your space is “talking” to you — whether you notice it or not.


The overstuffed closet says: “You’ve got decisions you’ve been avoiding.”


The messy counter says: “You’re too busy to slow down.”
The garage full of boxes says: “Someday you’ll deal with this — but not today.”

We get so used to the noise that we forget we can turn it down.
That’s what awareness — and decluttering — are really about.

More Than Just Tidying Up

After three days of meditating on what really matters, it became clear to me that decluttering is not just about making a space look nice.

It’s about paying attention.

It’s about noticing the things in your home and in your mind that feel heavy, loud, or out of place — and making intentional choices to let go.
It’s about creating a home and a life that feel quiet enough for you to actually hear yourself again.

When you live with more awareness, you live with more clarity.

When you let go of what no longer serves you, you create room for what does.

A Process I Still Practice Every Day

Even after all these years of helping clients declutter and simplify, I still have to work on this myself — every single day.

As long as you live in a home, bringing things in and out, this is a process you’ll always need to revisit. It gets easier, though, when you have what I call your ready position — a baseline of order and calm you can always return to when life gets busy or messy.

If you haven’t read it yet, check out my blog on The Ready Position for Your Home to learn how to create that foundation.

Ready to Create More Awareness in Your Life?

If you’re feeling overwhelmed — by your home, your thoughts, or both — you don’t have to stay stuck.

My free CLARITY Guide: 7 Steps to Declutter Your Space & Clear Your Mind walks you through a simple, step-by-step process to bring more awareness, peace, and ease into your home and your life.

You deserve to feel lighter and more present.

Get the CLARITY Guide here

Because decluttering isn’t just about your stuff — it’s about waking up to what really matters.

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